Thursday, November 27, 2008

My Cup Overflows



Like many others, I woke up this morning feeling like I needed to put pen to paper, er... finger to keyboard, to remind myself what I have to be thankful for. Everything was really put into perspective for me last night. I was the only one left in the office working late, as many people either took the day off or left at noon. Here I was sitting at my desk at 6pm thinking, "I am working late again... by myself". Even though I was feeling a little down, I didn't rush to get everything done. I took my time to make sure I did the work right the first time. As I drove down the road from my work, there was a roadblock due to an accident. The car looked like it was completely totaled, and I couldn't imagine the driver had been able to just walk away. I immediately thought to myself, "I'm thankful I had to work late." I realized that there are many things in my life that I should be thankful for. So, here's the short list...
  • My loving families. As much as they can drive me crazy, I know that they have good intentions.
  • J. We have had our ups and downs over the years, but through everything, we remain rock solid. We make each other laugh out loud on a daily basis. He may be a procrastinator and hater of the word plan, but that's what makes our relationship spontaneous. We balance each other out and love each other for who we are.
  • My job. While I might not currently have my dream job, I do have a job. In this economy, that's not something to take for granted.
  • My home. Not everyone can say they own their own home, and many people are losing theirs right now.
  • Jill and Chase. They love us unconditionally and always lift our spirits when we're down. Their tails never stop wagging.
  • Our wedding. I know I've complained about money, budgets, family, etc. After quite a lot of reflection, I have realized that the details don't matter. Not everyone has the opportunity to host a marriage celebration with friends and family. The details don't matter.
  • Snow. Our local economy will not survive without it. (I bet you never thought you'd hear that from the naysayer of winter!)
  • My dinner. I am thankful that I will have food on my plate today. There are many people who can not say the same.
  • My friends. Friends who are taking me in for Thanksgiving, while J is away. Friends who listen to me go back and forth with ideas for the wedding. Friends who I have never even met face to face. Friends of this blog. I would not get through the ups and downs of the planning process without my friends. I enjoy hearing everyone chime in on this blog and love that you will just tell me how it is!
I could go on like this for ages, but I need to go help Jen cook dinner. I hope all of you are surrounded by friends and family this holiday.

1 comment:

southern daze said...

Happy Thanksgiving! I hope you had a splendid day :-)

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